‘Won at life,’ says bride as groom rejects dowry cash pile, shares touching viral video

In many parts of South Asia, the dowry system has long been an ingrained tradition that has been a burden on the bride’s family. Despite being outlawed in countries like India, the practice still persists in various forms, often being a factor of gender inequality and financial strain. However, as society continues to grow modern day by day, more individuals are rejecting outdated customs and choosing to embrace progressive values instead. A recent viral wedding video is a perfect example of this growing shift, showing how love and respect in marriage can transcend old societal expectations.
Recently, Dr. Komal Saini’s wedding video has captured the hearts of thousands across social media. The video, titled “My marriage video. #Say no to dowry,” shows a beautiful moment during her wedding where her groom takes a strong stance against dowry. As part of the traditional dowry exchange, the bride’s father is seen handing over stacks of cash to the groom. But instead of accepting the full amount, the groom, with great respect, takes only a few notes and returns the rest.
The moment that won hearts on social media
Dr. Saini’s caption of the video reads, “i definitely won at life,” capturing the pride and happiness of witnessing such a meaningful moment. This act of defiance against the dowry system has won hearts of viewers, many of whom praised the couple for their courage in breaking free from societal norms. The groom’s refusal to accept the dowry was not just a symbolic gesture, but it was a statement that respect, love, and equality should be at the core of every marriage.

What struck viewers the most was the emotional response from the bride’s father. Tears rolled down his face which were symbolic of relief and joy, as he realised his daughter was marrying into a family that valued her as an individual, rather than as a commodity.
Internet praises the ‘principled’ groom
The video received multiple comments on social media. A user wrote, “The way Uncle touched the groom’s hand. Simply melted my heart.” Another user commented, “Those tears in uncle’s eyes reflect how glad he is from inside to get such a pure soul as his son-in-law.”
Many viewers also expressed admiration for the groom’s upbringing. “To break a barrier of dowry needs courage and a good heart. Salute to this groom,” one comment read. Another noted, “The father was about to cry… because he got emotional that his daughter is going in safe hands.” People also praised the groom’s parents for raising such a compassionate and principled son. “Salute to his parents who made him a real person and a gentleman,” said one admirer, while another added, “His mother raised a gentleman.”

The emotional impact of the video is undeniable. As a user said, “Pata nahi but it fills my eyes with tears whenever I see this..this tradition should go..father gives his most precious thing in the world… respect the father & respect that girl who leaves her family to make your world a beautiful place.”
This heart-winning video is a reminder that change often starts with small but significant steps, and moments like these have the power to reshape societal attitudes and inspire future generations.
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